libopencv_videostab might be located in your /usr/lib folder. You should be able to bypass this issue by creating a symbolic link from the correct location of the library to /usr/lib/arm-linux-gnueabihf/libopencv_videostab.so.2.4.8.
I had a simular issue on the TX 1. You can create the symbolic using the following lines: (replace with your architecture and version number)
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_calib3d.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_calib3d.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_contrib.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_contrib.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_core.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_core.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_detection_based_tracker.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_detection_based_tracker.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_esm_panorama.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_esm_panorama.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_facedetect.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_facedetect.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_features2d.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_features2d.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_flann.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_flann.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_gpu.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_gpu.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_highgui.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_highgui.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_imgproc.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_imgproc.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_imuvstab.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_imuvstab.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_legacy.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_legacy.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_ml.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_ml.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_objdetect.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_objdetect.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_photo.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_photo.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_stitching.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_stitching.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_superres.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_superres.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_tegra.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_tegra.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_video.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_video.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_videostab.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_videostab.so.2.4.9
ln -s /usr/lib/libopencv_vstab.so /usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/libopencv_vstab.so.2.4.9
You can also get complaints about libopencv_ocl. This library does not exist in opencv4tegra. I managed to bypass this error by creating a dummy shared library containing no functions (but correctly compiled) and naming it libopencv_ocl.so.X.X.X and placing it in the directory you mentioned.
